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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’d respond “let what go”

If they cant explain what “it” is then I’d say I can’t until you can understand “it”.[/quote]

I love this! [/quote]

+1. I was in this situation once and was instructed to "get over it" a[b]nd I have long wished I had simply asked "Get over what, specifically?" Because if there is something to get over, why isn't there something to apologize for?[/b][/quote]

I love this last statement - I'm always doubting what I feel - this is so helpful.
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You and me both. This thread is pretty validating. [/quote]
Sorry, but I disagree. Just because someone isn’t over something does not mean there is something to apologize for. I think it’s rude to tell someone else “get over it” but I also know many people who hold onto grudges over small things or even no things. Or things they haven’t explained. Or misunderstandings. [/quote]

If your close friend tells you that they were deeply hurt by something you did, you apologize and try to make amends. You don't double down, gaslight, and tell them to get over it. Unless you're a terrible person, that is.[/quote]

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