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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’d respond “let what go”

If they cant explain what “it” is then I’d say I can’t until you can understand “it”.[/quote]

I love this! [/quote]

+1. I was in this situation once and was instructed to "get over it" a[b]nd I have long wished I had simply asked "Get over what, specifically?" Because if there is something to get over, why isn't there something to apologize for?[/b][/quote]

I love this last statement - I'm always doubting what I feel - this is so helpful.
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You and me both. This thread is pretty validating. [/quote]
Sorry, but I disagree. Just because someone isn’t over something does not mean there is something to apologize for. I think it’s rude to tell someone else “get over it” but I also know many people who hold onto grudges over small things or even no things. Or things they haven’t explained. Or misunderstandings. [/quote]

You should find it VERY enlightening that you know of many people who hold on to grudges. That truly ought to tell you something about yourself. Please think on that. [/quote]

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