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[quote=Anonymous]OP, it’s fine to be a little more of an intense personality but what you are describing is an extreme hyper vigilance and anxiety. You are taking on all this responsibility and it’s clearly catching up with you. Your dates are picking up on this energy and saying “no thank you”
Right off the bat, before anything even gets started. It’s too much! You may not tell them all your family burdens on a date, but trust me, they feel it. And no man wants to play second fiddle to anyone’s family. Most are really basic and want to be the star of their show, not a guest appearance. the ones that will take you as you are, right now are looking for another mommy and you will be taking care of yet another person (either emotionally or financially). The ones that are saying no to you bc you are “intense” understand boundaries and aren’t necessarily going to put up with all of your priorities, bc they want to be your main priority. Ppl are inherently selfish. I admire your taking care of your family but you are sacrificing your own personal happiness. you will reach a breaking point and the extreme hypervigellence will end poorly for you health wise and relationship wise. [/quote]

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