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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]One important thing that is rarely acknowledged in the now-cliched boundaries discussion is that healthy boundaries are established bilaterally, that is, together. When boundaries are established unilaterally it is a hostile action. [/b] With that said, it sounds like your dad could be more involved in your life in a way that helps you! If he's a good man, he will relish the chance to do this, to lighten your load, to connect with your kids, to bring over meals, etc. Please let him know what kind of things would help you. Also talk with him about areas of your lives where you and he need to agree on new boundaries.[/quote] What on earth do you mean? Boundaries are about letting other people decide with you what your limits are?[/quote]
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