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[quote=Anonymous]I think if you send a save the date to someone and then don't invite them it is ridiculous. So I'd tell your sister that you (or you and husband or you and husband and kids depending on how specficially the save the date was addressed and that due to the cost of international travel and (if relevant) the need to pull your kids oout of school that you will book your arrangements by X date and if there are any changes to the invite list that it would be wonderful to let you know by then. *of course prefix this with a few sentences about your sister, ask her how she doing, wedding plans, tell her how much you love the colors of the save the date, whatever* then just do what you can. Your mom will live, or will make the arrangements (and payments) for you if she doesn't like what normal humans can do. Congrats to your sister and I hope you have a lovely time at the wedding![/quote]
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