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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is your sister, absolutely reasonable to talk to her.

[b]"Sis, I know you want to wait to gauge numbers for your B list, but I need to know so I can book flights to attend. Please let me know if Janey and Joey are invited and I will book accordingly."[/b]

I wouldn't even give a deadline. It's absurd to send save the dates and not have a clear idea on if the people who RECEIVED SAVE THE DATES are invited. What a bullshit way of planning a wedding. [/quote]

I think this is a great way to phrase it :lol:
My guess is there is an A list and B list and that only the A list receives the save the dates.  I've never been asked to RSVP for a save the date though and I'm guessing most guests haven't either.[/quote]
It's sooo clear she's being tacky and doing a B list.

The point of a B list is that people aren't supposed to know theyre on a B list. You don't send them a save the date and say "we hope we get enough declines so your family can come". It's so gross. [/quote]

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