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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP: We’ve been officially dating for 7 months, but we’ve known each other since college. I’ve been babysitting for about four months now. I have two kids — a 15-year-old daughter, and a 19 year daughter away at college, with my ex-husband. I was also briefly married right out of high school/in freshman year college (young and dumb, so I don’t really count that one..).[/quote]

OK but his kids haven't known you since college. And nothing you said changes the fact that you're free, a convenient way for him to dump his kids and avoid responsibility. Do you all live together?[/quote]

No, we don’t live together. He’s very busy with work, including during weekends, which is why he asked me to babysit. The kids mother, doesn’t mind.[/quote]

He could make choices about his schedule to be more available, he just doesn't want to do it. He's using you and you are letting him. I'd be very suspicious about what he's actually doing "at work" overnight on the weekend. [/quote]

Me too. Guarantee he is not actually working. But even if he is, the kids need to either go to their moms or he needs to pay a babysitter. [/quote]

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