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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is OP. Do you know what I find truly funny? I have written on this board many times over the years asking for sincere help to try to build a healthy marriage. I was almost unanimously told to divorce each time by every single poster. Now everyone is saying that I am the bad guy. This board is something else.

Anyway, when you know, you know. I did EVERYTHING I could, I am at true peace. I also know that my peace will allow me to be fully present for my kids. We've got this (and really, we have no choice). [/quote]

DP. 1. This board is extremely extremely quick to recommend divorce for almost everything. That’s not normal.  2. I didn’t tell you not to divorce, but I did remind you that you should have eyes wide open. I divorced and also at first felt no regret and I don’t even think I’d say I regret it now (15 years later). But there was A LOT I didn’t consider when I was fresh into the separation process and happy to ‘live my life without dh!’ etc. When you have kids with someone, it’s really really really complicated. I don’t know how to explain it to you, but it just is. I’m not telling you what to do, but I wish someone had been able to get that through my head when I divorced. I’m not sure I would have heard it tbh. [/quote]

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