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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yikes! 
Did you and your husband plan and discus having children?

Can’t believe divorce isn’t an option for a physically violent man who lashes out on his own kids

Is he abusive w you? [/quote]
I'm a PP whose DH became easily frustrated with our kids.

[b]You don't know what kind of parent you will be until you have kids.[/b]  It also depends on the kid's temperament. Some kids are easier than others.

And IMO, rough handling your child is not necessarily abusive in the legal sense.   IMO breaking up a family over this incident (or a few others) without trying to work on your parenting  is not the answer.[/quote]

I call BS - I knew exactly what kind of parent I wanted to be when I had kids. I knew 10 years before I had kids and 5 years before I met my husband.  I played a HUGE role in choosing a husband. We both took parenting classes before and after our fist was born. Two kids are adults and 2 are teens and yes - we are the parents we thought we would be.  We were always in the same page. And YES parenting can be difficult, frustrating, and challenging - which is when you have to rely on each other most.

I’m flabbergasted at people like you who get married and have kids - the biggest life impacting decision you will ever make - without giving it much thought.  If you don’t think about this what on earth do you put thought into?[/quote]

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