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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sorry. Your husband’s behavior is inexcusable and a complete turn off.

Since divorce isn’t an option. Best of luck to you and your kids [/quote]

Boy, what a silly and unhelpful answer. These divorce-your-dh nutjobs never appreciate that marriage, family, and parenting is not always a walk in the park; husbands and wives are also learning, growing, through the years, and bring their experiences to a relationship.  Alas, even ans andults, we  are not always perfect.

Throwing “divorce” on the table every time there is a relationship challenge, is not helpful for creating and sustaining healthy relationships. Presumaly, if you married someone, it was to live a life together, through the ups and downs of love…

PP, if everything in your life is so disposable, you are simply a fair-weather friend. Be gone with you…[/quote]

Maybe I am a “divorce your DH nut job” but anyone who physically harms my child is a deal breaker. Why is it ok / acceptable to divorce if your spouse betrays you by cheating, but not ok if they betray your child, who you are supposed to protect at all costs, by harming them? I had a very difficult, stubborn child who has recently been diagnosed with Autism and there has never, ever been a situation where hurting them like some of these pps described was justified. If anyone, including my DH, left marks on my child, smashed furniture, hit walls, kicked their chair! Or threw things at them, I would call the police. Document what is happening, get a good lawyer, and fight like hell for them. [/quote]

I appreciate your instincts to protect your children at all costs. Respectfully, the situation is a lot more difficult than you seem to comprehend. I don't know why I'm bothering to say this to you because you'll accuse me of being a sympathizer of the abuser, and I'm not. The point is, OP came on her asking for help to try to keep her family together and give her kids the dad they deserve, so lawyering up and becoming antagonistic isn't what she is looking to do. When she's looking for your opinion, I imagine she'll ask for it. [/quote]

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