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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a similar mom who has caused me a lifetime of emotional pain and turmoil. If I found peace with your situation like your husband seems to have done, I would not want my DH of 18 years to tell me she is doing this. I would be very emotionally wounded and it would amplify my stress and sadness. I would only tell him if he ever notices or mentions it or talks about her. And say it like “maybe I saw her?” This is to protect your husbands heart, not to lie to him or keep secrets. [/quote] Eh i would be pissed if my husband kept this from me. No secrets.[/quote] I would too. What if she's sick or something and dies? You'll have never told him. He should decide what to do next, even if it opens up wounds. No secrets in a marriage. You can help him process it but it's not your responsibility to decide if he should know. [/quote]
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