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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was in this situation and didn’t break up, and we are now married to each other. I don’t refer it one bit. By middle age life gets messy and dating becomes horrible. I wasn’t about to give my now wife up over some drawn out legal stuff. I knew at the time that that she was 100% done with her ex, loved me, and was what I wanted in a wife. I also understood why she lied, because other men might not take her seriously. Their loss. Middle aged dating is hell if you want a partner. I guarantee you the guys who dumped my wife are not better off. What you should do depends on what you are looking for and how your relationship has otherwise gone. If you want a serious partner and you’ve been really enjoying her then don’t break up. [/quote] This is not a good advice. I could understand her not coming clean on first date but then she should have told OP on her own may be by 2nd or 3rd month. Her intentions were not correct and it shows that she could hide things from her partner to make herself look good. Those kind of people are known as narcissists and she would do anything to keep up her image in the future. For me, it is not the lying but the reason behind lying. [/quote]
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