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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP based on your last two replies, why don't you sit him down like you would a colleague and come up with solutions. You have to do it when you're not mad, and not going to blame him. You wouldn't respond well to someone who did that either. Don't be a boss, be a lateral.

If you want to come with a proposal, come at it with data. Cost, how it fits into budget, priorities. Can you fit a regular date night in? GL!
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I don't understand.  If DH were a colleague I would do my work. He would do his work.  The final product would show my contributions and lack of his.  A boss would notice and give appropriate feedback/promotion.  How does that apply here? 
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Okay, since you have no imagination rn...think about a joint project in school, how did you decide to divide it? Do that.

Or, just divorce.

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It seems like marriage is different. For a school project, if someone freeloads off the rest of the team, that person isn't invited to join the group for the next project.  At work, there is someone (a boss) in a position of authority over the two colleagues, who needs to be pleased.  Marriage isn't like either of those scenarios.[/quote]

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