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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It seems the sex is bad. I will never pick a tv show over good sex.[/quote]

This is OP.  So good sex should trump everything else?  If it doesn’t, it’s not good?  I can’t have sex all night and get up for work the next day. [b]Or I should want sex with him so much that I can’t imagine anything better?[/b][/quote]

If you have to ask this question, explaining to you won't help.[/quote]

Try to explain this to me like I'm 5.  I don't understand how sex is the center of all in a relationship.  It is one component of it.  But at 60, he needs help and he's been honest with me that if we didn't have sex, it would be okay with him.  I'm the one who encouraged medication.  To the person that wrote this---what are you going to do when you're 60 and things just don't work like they used to anymore?  Yes, sex is nice, but that's just it--it nice; it's one aspect.  There is nothing in my life that I always want to do---eating, sleeping, going to a concert, etc.[/quote]

I'm 60 and my husband's sex drive is much lower than mine. His overall energy level is lower too. The answer is you find other outlets for that energy but if I were single, very high on my list would be sexual compatibility.  I have plenty of friends for platonic companionship; I don't need a man to pay for me and my children are grown. If the sex isn't fantastic, why bother?[/quote]

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