Reply to Already Depressed about Valentine's Day

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Already Depressed about Valentine's Day"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous]"Actually, you don't it's pretty easy. My husband and I celebrate our marriage a million times a year, just not on a forced holiday. Maybe focus on the real problems in your marriage, which seem to be plentiful, instead of a stupid made up holiday."

My husband and I celebrate our love ever day. That doesn't mean we don't enjoy joining in on the Valentine's fun and surprising one another with fun treats that make one another smile on 2/14. DH is a great cook and will be making an extravagant meal for us to enjoy Saturday night. We don't have something to prove. We aren't pretending that it's not Valentine's Day just so we can feel superior to the masses.

As someone who is fortunate to have a really lovely marriage, the last thing I'd want to do is be hurtful to OP who is already feeling low. Maybe your marriage is great, but you've definitely got some anger issues and it's not nice to take them out on OP.

FTR- It's not a made up holiday. It's celebrated in other countries too. I remember giving classmates Valentine's cards before Hallmark was a household word. In some countries, it's more of a friendship day as opposed to a romantic one.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics