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[quote=Anonymous]The control dramas in this thread are hilarious! You don't get to control other people's behavior, even on valentine's day. February 14th doesn't obligate anyone to buy anything. If it means something to you, you probably ought to analyze why, but people get to like what they like. Communicate like an adult and ask for what you want, with the adult understanding that nobody is required to give it to you.

This ridiculous nonsense of "he didn't grab a cheap whatever at the store so he sucks" is so petty and spiteful and stupid. If you want a cheap something, but it yourself. If you demand an expensive something, ask yourself why. Why are you entitled to some sort of spoils just because 2/14 rolled around again? Being mad at your spouse instead of unpacking your own (likely unspoken) expectations is weapons-grade projection and a recipe for conflict you could easily avoid.

A lot of y'all need emotional maturity and some damned perspective to go with it. Whiners.[/quote]

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