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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What would be the difference in your relationship if you got married? (Finances aside).   Do you live together?  Do you spend most of your time together?   Are you each other's "other person"?

I guess I've never fully understood why someone is so against marriage unless it's that level of commitment they are against.  In which case, that's the issue here.  She wants to be more committed/serious than you. [/quote]

I do not want to be married again because my ex wife made the experience distaetasful. I am not against marriage I am just against marriage for ME. We don't live together. She suggested that at some point but I wasn't enthusiastic about it. I will say we are each other's person. I have a great relationship with her son, my kids like her. Every time we can get together, we do get together. In fact I have her as my emergency contact, primary contact etc.

I simply don't want to get remarried. Why is that not a realistic position? I am still committed to her. 
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She has more to lose by remarriage than you since she only has 1 kid, already in college, where you have 2 younger kids and all the obligations they entail and 5 more years before you’re an empty nester. I would expect you to want remarriage and her to be a firm no.[/quote]

OP simply knows he has 10+ years to date and enjoy different women. He will happily remarry after his 55 yo a woman 10-15 years younger

He should stop wasting her time this is taking advantage of her[/quote]

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