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[quote=Anonymous]If I had to do it all over again, I would have talked to people from my STBX’s childhood neighborhood, his high school, and his colleagues at his first job. With hindsight I can see that his pattern of running away from these places was very deliberate and he hid some major struggles by disconnecting himself from his past. My advice to anyone who dates someone that isn’t from the same area as them and doesn’t have mutual friends or connections to you from various points in their life is to do whatever you can to learn more about their family of origin and life before they met you. Living in a very mobile society is great cover for some really messed up people.[/quote]
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