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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Weird that you are posting this here seemingly as validation that you are right.

This doesn’t sound like a man “lying,” it sounds like someone trying not to get dunked on by his own family. He burned dinner. That’s not a character flaw. When the response is a group stare-down and commentary from everyone at the table, people get defensive and dig in. The real issue isn’t the breadcrumbs, it’s a family dynamic where one mistake turns into a referendum on competence, and then a wife who races to DCUM. [/quote]

If I were him I’d be embarassed as F to act like that after making a mistake.

Maybe he should be posting his misperceptions and piss poor behavior on DCUM for feedback. [/quote]

That's quite dramatic. Everyone burns dinner sometimes, it's not a big deal.

My husband was making Belgian waffles for our kids one weekend morning. I usually do it and I make it with fresh whipped cream, which he had never made before. He whipped it too much and it turned to butter. Instead of commenting rudely on it, the kids said it's ok I bet it'll still taste great and I asked if he wanted me to make another batch and he said yes and everything was fine.

The point is, all of them contributed to the dynamic that exists. [/quote]

It’s not a big deal. Unless you do it frequently/ the carelessness, the mindlessness.

It’s not a big deal. Unless you deny it or lie and hide it.

It’s not a big deal. Unless you jump sow your kids throat for asking if the food is burned.

He’s got anger issues for sure. [/quote]

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