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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think I’d just be direct about it, like others have said “I want to get together and see you guys I miss you! Is it weird though that I don’t want to fly all the way out to CA to hang out, since what we all really want to do is hang out in the hotel bar and go out to dinner and stuff? Want to do that somewhere closer to home that’s still a new city? Or I’d actually love to see SF but I know you guys aren’t as in to exploring the cities we go to and that’s totally fine - but I have this feeling I’ll be wanting to go explore SF but that means I’ll be heading out on my own which is silly because I want to spend time with you. Am I making sense??” This is probably literally what my ADHD brain would say [/quote] Why are you phrasing everything like you might be wrong or weird? That's so annoying. Just say what you want and what you don't want. [/quote] +1 The one friend was perfectly comfortable nixing the spa weekend. And the other friend who was voluntold to host at her home is probably just not dignifying that with a response as she wants to be on vacation too. Just tell them you'd love to visit SF if they're up for some sightseeing but if they just want to drink at the hotel bar you'd rather keep within driving distance. [/quote]
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