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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am not prey. I don't need someone chasing me. I don't play games. Clearly you haven't learned much from a failed marriage given you are starting out in a very unhealthy way.[/quote]

I don't think OP is talking about playing games. She talks about displaying an interest, being proactive, pursuing the woman, impressing her. I don't think it is unhealthy relationship. [/quote]
Exactly. Wanting someone who wants you is hardly unhealthy. I'm glad op recognized previous patterns that werent serving her and has adjusted her approach. Very mature. I'm not sure why pps are jumping on her for this. [/quote]

Seems like one PP who is completely misunderstanding OP's point. OP isn't saying to run away, play games, etc. OP is saying only date men who initiate (kudos to another PP for finding the right word). I cringe when I look back at my 20s and, yes, 30s dating years and realize how much time I wasted on guys who, cliche as it is, just weren't that into me. [/quote]

Initiate what? Asking you out? Planning 6 dates or whatever?. Texts or phone calls?[/quote]

Initiate active engagement in all of it. Asks a few days in advance if and when I want to meet again; calls when he said he would call; picks up the phone and talks not hurriedly when I call him as agreed; discusses what we both want to do over the weekend; has interesting ideas of what to do; drives to my part of the city to meet without making a fuss; makes advance joint plans for holidays ; expresses interest in hearing how my day went etc. [/quote]

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