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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am 44F and [b]financially broke [/b]with significant payments towards my bills every month. How important is my financial security for dating and being in an LTR with [b]someone who is financial secure[/b]? For the context, I am overweight with BMI of 33-34 but look good when I dress up and put make up on. I know I can date and it is easier to do but sometimes dating also needs money if you have to buy dinners now and then. [/quote] OP is broke, but wants someone who is financially secure for a LTR? And she is overweight and 44? If you're not willing to date someone who is broke, why should they date you? OP expecting her partner to be financially secure sounds like she want to sponge off his success rather than building something together. This would be like a broke guy with a dad bod only wanting to date modelesque women.[/quote] She wants a bailout. Shiiiiiii**t If I broke like OP you damn right I'll look for anyone who can bail me out. Most of us on this forum are rich let's be honest. However, I think we may be underestimating the massive number of Americans over 40s who are drowning in serious debt. [/quote] You would be surprised how many women think like that. For them, finding a guy that can help them financially is the ultimate dream and then things go south after 1-2 Years when they have the guy locked in because they know how to get them but can't keep them. [/quote]
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