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[quote=Anonymous]It's because it's not fair to the child to receive them, even by omission. My mother wanted me to accept her AP as a stepfather, and I would not have done so if I had known the truth-- that he was married and my mother was married, and they both carried on a long-term affair and told all the lies necessary to make that possible. My father did not tell me the truth either, and accepted that I would think less of him for holding my mother's AP at arm's length. Of course, I eventually found out the truth, and my relationship with my mother is far worse because of it, and my relationship with my father has healed. I will always resent being manipulated in this way. They didn't keep it a secret for my own good, they did it for their own convenience and to cause me to do something I would not have done if I had known the truth. I honestly do not think my relationship with my mother will ever recover.[/quote]
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