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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve been dating a woman for 6 weeks. We both were out of town for the holidays so meetups have been a little sparse. Our dates have gone well so far.

She mentioned she’d like to see each other this weekend and I said I’d like that and that I didn’t have any plans so my calendar was wide open for whenever she’d like to get together. She said there was an activity she wanted to do together but their tickets were sold out. It said no need to do anything extravagant, I’d like to just spend time together. We could go to one of our places (we haven’t done this before).

She never made any concrete plans with me for the weekend, but told me about how she was with her guy friends all weekend including one who came over her place.

I was kinda put off by this.[b] I’m dating for something serious [/b]and have been upfront about that. I get everyone has a life, but I feel like it’s a little bit of a flag that she didn’t fit me in at all. What do you think?[/quote]
No, it doesn't seem like that. Otherwise you'd a) make an effort to plan a date and b) not push for sex when she clearly wasn't ready.

You're still in the courting stages, and doesn't even sound like youre bf/gf official. But you want her to settle for you schlepping over to her house for a "hang out"? C'mon now. Women with standards - and one you apparently liked a lot - don't need to settle for low effort men. So either up your dating game or lower your dating standards. [/quote]

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