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[quote=Anonymous]OP - I think you will be in for more if the marriage dynamics don't change. He is demonstrating some level of glee at making you feel bad. If you stay in this marriage, you need to dissociate so that you are not vulnerable going forward. I watched my infantile FIL constantly and snidely put down my MIL for years. He hung every single responsibility on her. He made her his mommy but resented her for it. Everyone could see it. Today their friends who are elderly are quite frank in expressing their opinion of my FIL. I think she stayed in the marriage because she believed in upholding her vows. She respected the marriage, and separated that from him as a person. That was how she could proceed. She has passed away and people recall her fondly. There is not the same level of regard for my FIL.[/quote]
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