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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am 43F, 5'3'' and 190 lbs. If I want action, I can get plenty of action so I just date but settling down with a long term relationship is a different issue. [/quote]

I actually love your body type. I'm sure you have got a nice big butt. I'm 45. But you probably don't find tall 6' skinny men attractive.[/quote]

I have an ok butt but also have a belly and a lot of fat around mid-section that makes me look pregnant. I need to lose some weight but not happening easily. [/quote]

PP, do you get hit on a lot? Some men would pick chubby women if they are also good in bed. [/quote]

How would they know they are good in bed before taking them out[/quote]

They don't and some women are just good in flirting but bad in bed. If they connect their self-worth by their weight and looks then they are going to be very insecure in bed as well. My sister is like this - she is in her early 40s and start talking to good men for a month or two and then they disappear. She told me (I am a woman too) that she doesn't like to give or receive oral and her sex drive has gone down and it gets difficult for her to keep men engaged if they are doing everything and she is not giving them good sex. [/quote]

Yikes and then she is going from guy to guy and trying to find something that is already inside her.[/quote]

Honestly, that is my experience with OLD. I am in my late 30s and never been married but still don't get guys who are consistent and would be interested in an LTR. I do ok in dating and sex is easy but just dating and dating is exhausting. [/quote]

That's because you're in your late thirties. Not many men who are fit, in good financial shape, and have their act together. Want to settle down with the women in her late thirties. If you're in your late thirties and you have never been married, then I question what you've been doing with your life. Plus once someone is set in their ways, they don't understand what compromise and sacrifice are. The only person you've had to look out for is yourself so the ability to show any empathy or be a good partner just isn't in the cards. I'm willing to bet that most of those men can see that and that's why they don't want a serious relationship with you. Plus, if they want to have children they're going to go for someone younger where health issues won't be a problem[/quote]

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