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[quote=Anonymous]I know someone with a similar issue with regard to lack of transparency and it turns out
The DH had been spending massively on both gambling AND drugs and his debt was so so much worse than the wife knew. They are getting divorced and it’s a nightmare. The wife has not taken responsibility for her own finances and somehow also didn’t realize that she could not afford her lifestyle on her on own. They mostly have debt to split. Her parents are bailing them out but in the meantime they have have had their water and other utilities turned off for periods of time etc.  anyway the point is the kids who are completely blameless in all of this are really suffering and will likely have to move out of school district and it would be way worse if they didn’t have wealthy family. All that to say you need to think of this through the lens of protecting your kid. I am not one to rush to divorce but I would definitely give an ultimate that you two have transparency into the house hold financial situation and establish a budget with a counselor or a CPA or you divorce. You may view your finances as separate but legally they are not so you need to protect yourself and your kid. [/quote]

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