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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If he is saving the rest of the money, will he help support you with these funds during retirement? [/quote] If he hasn't shared any of his funds with her before retirement and expects her to contribute 50% on 1/20th of the salary, I highly doubt he has any intention of sharing anything with her post retirement. I think it is strange he also chooses to live on 1/20th of his salary so that it can be 50-50. Or do you just stay home and not get involved in the aspects of his life (vacations) that he can afford and you can't? There is no trust here and little respect. With this kind of treatment of another person and this level of inequality, this sound svery much like a marriage of convenience for him and likely one she is stuck in. [/quote]
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