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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why did you marry and reproduce with an a$$hole?!

I can’t imagine DH doing this and all the friends I’ve known to divorce have amicable divorces and remain “friends” with their ex.  Most end up better for the kids.  You are at least half responsible for your trauma.[/quote]

Well, maybe your DH won’t do this.

But at some point life will kick you in the teeth, and I hope you won’t go easy on yourself.  Because whatever happens, it will be your fault,[/quote]

Short of recent traumatic brain injury most people know their spouses.  [b]If they failed to see the red flags they live that burden.[/b]  And, yes, life has kicked me in the teeth (just like everyone else).  The difference? I don’t blame others, I take responsibility, and I control what I can - in OPs case that would be the reaction to an unreasonable person and emotional response.

OP - sure it’s draining - buck up, do what needs to be done to put it in your past.  Most importantly learn from this and don’t make any stupid man mistakes again. Some women go from dumb mistake to dumb mistake.  It’s only a total loss if you fail to learn.[/quote]

My ex got heavily into anti-vax/ body is a temple/ doctors are lying to you stuff.  That was 25 years ago, way before MAHA and social media.  There was absolutely nothing that could suggest he’d be susceptible to these things.  When our first child was born, there was some issue with the vaccine batch (temporary shortage?) that they had at the hospital, so they told us that the baby won’t get a shot right away and we’ll have to follow up with the pediatrician.  Then my ex did his research, and a surreal phase of my life began. 🤷‍♀️[/quote]

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