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[quote=Anonymous]OP - I think the two days a week is a good idea, but I would firmly tell her that you could use her help if she is willing to do tasks that you need done and to come over early so your teens can have their living space to study or relax after dinner. And she and your dad can eat dinner with you. Give her a choice if tasks that would be helpful to you, but not overtly exerting. If she would enjoy coming to cook dinner one night a week And even cleanup thst would be might work for all. Other things might be to help with laundry and vacuum and dust areas not intrusive to your privacy such as family room, living dining room, sunroom or office. You need to set the tone as your folks are not building connections in your area while they are healthy. Your mom will only become more reliant and demanding as she ages if you do not set the tone now. [/quote]
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