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[quote=Anonymous]Your daughter needs to learn when it’s appropriate to joke, with whom it’s appropriate to joke, and about what it’s appropriate to joke. Going for a laugh is not more important than politeness, tact, and sensitivity. There’s also the factor of “nobody asked for your opinion.” She sounds rude and a bit boorish. And I say this as someone who usually likes to try to make people laugh.

Tell her to err on the side of being quieter at this first meeting. It’s not a vaudeville act, and she’s not auditioning for a role. Tell her to use it as an opportunity to see what the parents are like, and less to show them what she’s like. Also let her know that it’s not the opportunity for a political debate, and if the boyfriend’s parents express views she doesn’t like, she doesn’t need to respond or engage. She will not change their minds, and she will not give them food for thought to reconsider their views. Again, it’s a chance for her to gather intel about what the parents are like. [/quote]

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