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[quote=Anonymous]I appreciate the insights in this thread. I am considering going the separation route if things with DH don’t improve in the next 1-2 years. He is in the process of being diagnosed with ADHD (and likely high functioning autism), and I certainly have my flaws, but he is a very difficult person to be married to. His behaviors (frequent emotional outbursts at minor provocations, Jekyll/Hyde personality, selfishness re: division of labor) killed any emotional connection we once had and I’m at my limit. We have two young kids and have done counseling, etc but not much has changed. I have no desire to remarry and he says neither does he, am a high GS fed (he’s currently unemployed/“self-employed”), and we have a second house house he can live in. If the ADHD medication route doesn’t work, I think this is the way so my kids’ lives are not blown up and I’m not paying him child support. We’re low conflict, friendly when he’s stable, and he’s a decent dad. [/quote]
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