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Grow up.

Send her to the 4 seasons alone tomorrow to recharge to spa and sleep . Be a good spouse.[/quote]

He'd be a good dude if he did this. But she's still not going to want to have sex with him, and you're kind of cruel for implying that she's going to be hot for him after a spa day. [/quote]

It actually disgusts me reading your comment.

She’s tired and stressed out and I suggest sending her away for a night to sleep and spa. Your response is you would only do that if she would return and want to have sex.

You’re not even thinking oh that would be a nice thing for her to be less stressed out.

You could not do something nice for a woman unless you get something (sex) in return for it.

You are a disgusting human being.[/quote]

You are a bad reader. I said he'd be a good dude if he did that. In other words - the opposite of saying he shouldn't arrange a spa day for her.

The fact remains that she's not going to be hot for him because of the spa day, and you're doing harm by leading OP to believe that's the effect it will have. [/quote]

But who is going to do all the things she was planning to get done on that day? If he's "giving" her a spa day, he's really just asking her to waste some of her work time. If she declines, he'll pout.[/quote]

As I read the exchange, he was being instructed to send her to the Four Seasons a day or two after Christmas when, presumably, she wouldn't have much scheduled. [/quote]

LOLOL. The post-Christmas breakdown and cleanup is a lot of work too! OP's problem is that he's not seeing her workload, and he's not seeing that all the extra tasks and routine changes and visual clutter of the holidays is adding to her stress. Spa is just more work if nobody picks up her tasks while she's there.

Here is the way to say that: "Honey, I made you a spa appointment for half a day. While you're there, I will take down all the outdoor lights and make sure everything is clean and put away for the year. Also, I will wash, fold, and put away all the sheets from the guest beds and have the guest rooms back to normal." THAT is what she wants to hear. Not "Honey, fall behind on your tasks and then I'll demand sex."[/quote]

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