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[quote=Anonymous]Here is how it works, OP. You take initiative, and you complete a task without being directed. You can also take initiative to reduce or eliminate tasks, but only if it's things she doesn't really care about. Here are a few examples.

"Honey, I have talked with my siblings and we agreed not to do gifts this year. Instead, we will all do donations to the food bank. I will buy cards, put donation receipts in each card, and address and mail them so that they arrive before Christmas." -- and you say this in mid-December.

"Honey, I have gotten the outdoor lights down from the attic and tested to make sure they work. I was thinking of doing a little less this year, maybe just the house and not the shrubbery. What do you think of that idea?" -- and you say this in mid-December.

"Honey, I know you love to make the card we send. I went through our photos online and here are the five I like the best. I also updated our address book for my side of the family." -- and this can be done as early as mid-November and should definitely be completed by mid-December.

These are the kinds of things she will like. Because you're not making empty promises, about what you will do, you're saying "This is what I have already done", and you're doing it without being told, well before it's due, and when she still has an opportunity for feedback.
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