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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thank you all. I am in therapy and discussing this with my therapist and psychiatrist to find ways to manage. I don't have any concern about her dad or other close family friends that are male or my sister in laws husband. It's not every male. The example I gave with our friend playing doctor had more to do with the game doctor than him. And it was fleeting. A few minutes of being uncomfortable in my skin and then I was over it. She regularly sees men in our friend group and has no issues playing and interacting with them.

This experience with her grandfather is and was unexpected but not fleeting. I also recognize I have no idea what is normal or not between a grandparent and grandchildren. The constant touching ( with me and her dad in the room) is unsettling for me.

This am he came out of his room with his shirt off and picked her up- she had just eaten and only had a diaper on. We took off her Christmas dress to eat. He picked her up and held her and put his forehead on hers and it just looked and felt so weird to me. Mind you I have no problem with my husband doing skin to skin since she was born and she still likes it when shes sick.

I'm working through my feelings and staying vigilant.

To the poster who unfortunately had the experience come true - what if any behaviors did you notice?[/quote]

She only had a diaper on?  As in otherwise naked?  Maybe you will feel more comfortable if you keep clothes on her.[/quote]

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