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[quote=Anonymous]I didn't find out for two years after my DD started acting like this that she had been sexually assaulted by a boy at school. She was 14 when it happened. It started years of absolute hell for us - and anytime we treated the situation with discipline it obviously just got worse. Once I knew where it all stemmed from it didn't get better (the shame she felt when we knew about made things much much worse) but everything made sense and I could lean in with love during the hard times. The years I tried to "discipline it out of her" are incredibly painful to me now. I, as her mom, got the brunt of it, and I think it was because I was a "safe" place for all those terrible, dark, scary feelings she had. [/quote]
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