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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You mean the young women weren't harassed like when you were young?

The horror! They can actually attend parties, eat, drink and chat like actual human beings, without being followed, surrounded, or need to watch their drink the entire time.

Instead, if they're interested in a young man their age, they can go up to him and start a conversation, peer-to-peer.

How sad for them, OP. [/quote]

But the issue is they don't go up to guys. And guys don't go up to them out of fear, ever though woman naturally expect them the male to approach.[/quote]

They want guys they're attracted to to come up and talk to them. I think the problem is men have a harder time determining whether they are attractive to women or not, whether due to covid or too much time online or whatever. It's also possible young men are less attractive compared to young men in the past, see studies on testosterone decline, etc.[/quote]

Men are getting destroyed by women. It’s like a sport. That Lots of those TikTok videos of women making fun or embarrassing men who approach women. It’s a cultural thing now. If you are a young man and you approach a woman you are atypical and an outliner. Most likely have EQ deficiency or something worst, [/quote]

Ultimately it's a culture/society problem.  [b]Men are raised in a world where they see Kevin James or Ray Romano on TV with a hot chick and think "Great!  Looks don't matter in men!"[/b] and therefore have no idea where they are on the totem pole, when the stark reality is the typical guy is not only not attractive to the hot chick, they're not attractive to [i]any[/i] woman.  And the revealed preference is that most women don't want any man to come up and bother them.  Sure when pollsters call they might say they wish more when would approach, but they are imagining a handsome, confident man, not the typical man.  That's why the average young woman is wearing headphones, keeping their head down.  Most men have no idea they're unattractive or assume it doesn't matter/can be overcome with confidence/charisma/charm.  
The only downside of the metoo movement for women is that actual attractive men are much less likely to approach.[/quote]

OK Grandma. Any more advice gleaned from TV shows that were off the air before these men were born?[/quote]

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