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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd want my wife to be able to O with me. [/quote] I have the same issue. Advice has been don’t put pressure on her. However, even if she doesn’t feel pressured, the issue likely isn’t resolved. [/quote] We went to counseling for the same thing. The therapist recommended we agree to a schedule, and the ground rules are you dont skip and only delay for a discussed reason. So for us Friday night is sex night. We both know it, make time for it, and if one of us is truly tired or not feeling well then Saturday is the day. After 5 years it still works. No more "who is initiating". No more "when is the next time, if ever". Nothing prevents spontaneity in between but we stick to the plan. It works. Thats 52 times a year, at least, without every time being a mind game.[/quote]
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