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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m so tired of parents blaming mental illness for their poor parenting. Majority of kids today and the last generation were raised by soft parents and look at them - disgraceful and violent with no regard for anyone else. Most kids don’t have a mental illness - your parenting just sucks. [/quote]

Preach! 
Mental illness is the first diagnosis on the site when spouses cheat and kids are ill behaved.

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A normal 13 yo doesn’t break things or hit their parents regardless of parenting. That is way removed from normal [/quote]
When you’ve endured the kind of trauma OP’s DD has, it’s normal. Imagine your father giving you up, your mother neglecting all of your emotional needs,  bringing another man and baby into the home without having any idea how to do it in a healthy way, and now you’re pubescent so who knows with an unstable home what kind of people are taking advantage of her. OP owns her kid’s problems. She caused them. And if her stupidity gave her kid BPD then it’s no surprise. 
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