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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, get a marriage license next week, book an officiant (JP? Family lawyer?) and have a nice old fashioned (1950s, 60s, 70s, 80s) wedding ceremony in your dad’s living room with just the immediate family with cocktails and finger foods reception immediately thereafter. You can all wear Sunday best without going full wedding. If you really want to do a big wedding a year later great - or maybe by then you’ll be happier going on a trip with husband and child. If you and fiancé want to marry before baby comes, and want to do low key - just compromise and marry with your dad present. He wants to see you married, that’s sweet.[/quote] Omg hell no OP this is 2025 no one needs to be married Ignore them be happy and fir gods sake grow the hell up you are about to bring a child into this world It’s none of their dam business if you are married [/quote] Right but OP is insisting that both she and her SO want to be married, but she’s hanging on to stupidity like “waiting for a surprise proposal because I still want some traditional things,” so she does not share your worldview. OP the real, proper, traditional thing to do in this scenario is to marry quietly and quickly. Stop being so undignified and shallow and just go to the courthouse over the holidays[/quote]
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