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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You keep moving the goals posts - changing the issues. Do I this highly confrontational woman who is always arguing shows up and sits silently in a corner murmuring - no. Now you are just making things up.[/quote] I assure you I’m not making it up. This IS the cycle: she engages in behavior DH finds inappropriate or unacceptable, he calls her out, she initiates no-contact, they don’t speak for months, she initiates contact ahead of holidays or family events, she attends and then acts wounded and awkward. I often wonder why she comes if she doesn’t want to be there? It’s like they both want to pretend their relationship is “normal”, but only around holidays. And they can’t even pretend properly! —OP[/quote]
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