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[quote=Anonymous]I think what happened is she is a line in the sand kind of person. She had this fixed rule about not making her child hang out with people she doesn't like. She probably was one of those moms who invited all the girls in a class to a bday party except the 2-3 her daughter didn't like because of this rule.

This is the problem with fixed rules. Turning principles not into guidelines but lines in the sand (adults don't spend social time with people they don't like so neither should kids have to).

I've done this in my own life and it SUCKS.  Adults don't have to eat food they don't like so neither should kids.  So instead of making one dinner a night I am short order cooking for my kids.  I wish I made that food principle a guideline and not a rule.

The mom should have agreed to something fun and had her daughter go for old times sake, talking to her daughter about social obligations. Most likely the connection would fall flat and then you maybe could have moved on as mom only friends. But instead she stuck to the rule and lost an adult friend, which is a hard to come by thing.[/quote]

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