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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The trouble is "good" isn't good enough.

Men can be "good" and be lazy, unambitious or boring.  This describes a lot of men and tonnes of women end up shackled to them.

Men can be sh*tty and sexy.  The sheen quickly wears off these guys.

Men can be "sh*tty" and lazy, unambitious or boring.  This is the biggest population.  They are nobodies though occasionally they can nab a woman with low self-esteem.

Men can be good and sexy, but that is extremely rare, no matter the age.  Obviously those guys get swept up fast and have a lot of options.

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This was me.  To expand on this, what I advise young women today in the modern western world is, spend your early and mid-twenties focusing on college and career and become self-sufficient by mid to late twenties.  Then choose to become a single mom by 30, with a guy who has whatever traits you might want in your potential kids (attractiveness, intelligence, morals, whatever).  That might be the tatted up bartender a PP mentioned, or a neurosurgeon or anything in between.  Once you have a kid or kids, you then have decades to find your "soulmate", there is no rush because you already have kids, and if you find a soulmate great, if not you can invest your time and energy into your family.  There is no law saying the father of your kids has to be your husband, your soulmate--it's just convention.  A convention that no longer makes sense in a world where women are outpacing men at every turn and fewer men make the cut.[/quote]

This is a wonderful guide for dying alone. [/quote]

Or finding a guy with no options other than dating a single mom.[/quote]

And most of the ones who do date a single mom are not going to treat the kid(s) all that well. [/quote]

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