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[quote=Anonymous]I'm a woman, and I know many women who have extremely misogynist views but claim to be feminist. They are often openly very critical of other women for not conforming to beauty expectations, judge the worth of other women by looks, their husband's income, and material goods. Most of them are college educated, liberal (I am also liberal), and UMC. Their feminism is mostly performative. I do think they genuinely care about abortion rights for all women. But beyond that, they mostly want privileges for themselves, which they will call feminism, and don't think much about how women in general fare in the world. They might *say* they care, but they don't. The part that bothers me the most is the willingness to exploit the cheap labor of poor and immigrant women in order to realize their career goals or "egalitarian" marriages. They will rely on this labor to care for their children, clean their homes, etc. Their husbands of course also consider themselves feminists, as they rely on a small army of other women to do all the caretaking. Sometimes their mothers also perform some of this work (almost never fathers). If you ask them questions about this set up, they get mad. But they fervently believe they are feminists. It's fascinating.[/quote]
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