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Reply to "My husband has been gone for 60 days and I'm realizing my marriage is bad."
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[quote=Anonymous]OP I think what you should do is just to consider yourself separated in your mind. Don't rely on him, find fun elsewhere (friends? books? hobbies?), and do anything you'd do if he wasn't there. Do a friendly "gray rock" of him. Don't do his laundry. This might fix a lot of your issues. It sounds like you wanted a best friend type of marriage and it didn't happen. So mourn the loss of that dream and work with the marriage you have- a partnership where you both pay bills 50% and occasionally he does some outside chores. Or this type of gray rock will solidify your desire to divorce. [/quote]
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