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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It always amazes me that posters will defend the husband on threads like this. I assume the defenders are men or women who thought OP was a SAHM.  There is a lot of hate for SAHMs on this forum. Anyway, the guy hasn't planned a date in five years but has plenty of time for his buddies? OP, cut him loose now! [/quote]

It seems kind of clear that this is who he is and who he as always been.  No one on these threads made her marry him.  If he was such a doofus she shouldn’t have had a child with him but she did and now she has to consider the ramifications of giving her child a broken home.[/quote]

So to be clear, adults who get married and then have children,[b] should be exactly as they were before marriage and children[/b]? Because this is the main problem with men, and their apologists, IMO. You get a different job, you shouldnt expect work #2 to be the same as work #1. You get married, you no longer are single and should not conduct yourself in the same manner as when you were single. You have kids, your time is no longer all yours. Your efforts, your time, your money, etc. is no longer able to be funneled entirely into yourself and your "hobbies".

It's a problem when half of the partnership is gone and its easier. That means they require more investment compared to what they give. 
Also, LOTS of people wake up or get to work before 5am- my husband included, as a fed worker, no less. Lots of teachers get up at 4am to workout before their kids wakeup and have to be at school. Stop acting like getting up at 4am for work excuses him from participating in the household and day-to-day management.

Also, its clear that because of the responses to OP about how shes likely a SAHM or do you even have a job? mean that its apparent shes being treated like one.

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