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[quote=Anonymous]Read OP's first post. Obviously, OP was deeply hurt that DD behaved this way, and torn between letting it go for the sake of peace and love, but concerned that this behavior may reoccur. I have a DS who has deliberately said similarly painful snipe remarks. Similar to OP, I chose taking the high ground initially for the sake of love, while trying to formulate an appropriate response. Later, I chose to address this cruelty head on, and correct the bad habit. I got it that dogs are not humans, but Cesar Millan is right that if not corrected, dogs bad habits will not end well for the pet and its owner. The dogs with bad habits will have to be surrendered to animal shelter, where the chances of being adopted is less than 5% depending on the breed. Even if the dog gets readopted, they will reoffend and end back in the shelter. This is the equivalent of being disinherited by parents, divorced by their spouses, and shunned by their future children, friends and family due to bad habits that did not get corrected. Similarly in the workplace, inappropriate/disrespectful/ungrateful behavior are not appreciated nor tolerated by Bosses, who will be put in an uncomfortable position to correct, and eventually fire the incorrigible employee.[/quote]
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