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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is entitled. Your focus for the week is on personal fulfillment and DHs is on working to support the expenses for a family of 5. What are you really contributing to the family while he is at work 40-50 hours a week. What if he loses his job? What if the pressure and stress of the financial responsibility amongst all other responsibilities negatively impacts his physical and mental health? As much as he says he is fine with it. Tis is how resentment builts. You spend your day hanging out with friends, going for brunch, getting your nails done, going to the gym, watching Netflix and he comes home from a day at work and is then expected to do his 50% of the household chores and childcare while you chatter in his ear about Brenda at the club. He gets irritable and then you whine on here and everyone tells you his role as a husband is to support you 100% in whatever you want to do and it is his job to take on 100% of the financial responsibility and 50% of all other family responsibilities and if he isn't doing that then he is a loser and you should dump him and get as much money as you can from him. And you both end up miserable. [/quote] Most white collar men that age and that income are not working that hard either. [/quote]
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