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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You're determined to get remarried and you will. That's your priority.

You will leave your money to this second wife.

You want your kids to go along with these decisions.They don't.

You will have to live with your decisions. You will. [/quote]

He doesn't sound like he has any money other than a little life insurance from his late wife's employer.  Maybe the new woman is a nurse and a purse!  [/quote]
Yes. Either way, he's determined to remarry. I know of an older guy who was divorced, remarried and widowed and remarried in his 80s to his third wife! If you want to, you will. Lots of headaches for all the kids and stepkids is this guy's orbit. But he doesn't care! And that's the point. Why pretend that you do? You want your nurse and purse and your kids don't matter. [/quote]

Similarly I knew someone who married within 6 months of his wife's passing.  They were both in their 60s and it got messy really fast.  He wanted an instant replacement wife and she was dazzled by his money and lovebombing.  I felt so sad for the adult kids on both sides who had tried hard to slow down that train, but ultimately failed.  [/quote]

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