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Reply to "Feeling like I'm the spouse who is always "on" and keeping things in order"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have a conversation with him where you ask him to highlight things he notices that need to be done that you haven’t noticed. Maybe he also has a list or maybe he doesn’t. Either way you can then have a discussion about things on the lists. I think you need to be more problem solving oriented rather than complaining. It often leads to more change.[/quote] I'm someone who thinks just like you do, and I have a very equal marriage. I also have a very close friend who could have written the OP and she has done everything she can to address the issue with no change. I think it's like dog breeds - some men can swim and fetch and some can't. And trying to teach a Pekinese to retrieve a duck is a lost cause. [/quote] Except that this is simple adult stuff. Like piss in the litter box not all over your own damn house. Every breed can or can’t do that. The ones who can’t get housetrained get cut loose. No gracias. [/quote]
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